Monday, March 31, 2008

Praying for others

This past week and weekend I was able to visit with people that I rarely see and yet have prayed for and served Jesus Christ with them for a good while. One was a college student at VT. She is an active part of SCC when she is in the Hampton Roads area and is missed by the music team and her family when she is at VT. She took some time from her full day at VT and gave my family a brief tour of VT so my daughter could get a feel for the campus. She is a blessing to my wife, SCC and my daughter. It is a joy to serve JC with this college student even though we are miles apart.
The other is a young man whom I've known for 12 or 13 years. He was an active part of a Student Ministry that I led in Chesapeake and I had the opportunity to serve with him on Summer Mission Trips. He and his family were instrumental in helping start Sunrise. He is a VT grad and has been and is an active part of a church that is sharing the Gospel at VT. He is soon moving to northern VA to begin a new phase of life and ministry. It is a joy to have helped this young man grow in Christ and serve JC with him even though we are miles apart.
Sunday evening my family, minus my daughter, had dinner with a couple and their two teens. This family was a part of Sunrise after we launched and SCC had the joy of baptizing them and serving with them. They now live in GA and are active in a church where they live. They are awesome people who are gracious and fun to be around. They bring joy to people. Their children are fun loving, kind and talented. Much like their parents. It is a joy to serve JC with these people even though we are miles apart.
These are people I have prayed for and served with for a good number of years. I remember them with joy in my heart and thank God for them as we continue to serve JC

Grace and Peace

"1 Paul and Timothy, servants of Christ Jesus, To all the saints in Christ Jesus at Philippi, together with the overseers and deacons: 2 Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ." Philippians 1:1-2 NIV

Grace and peace. This is a fantastic way to greet people. Blessing them with God's grace and peace. Grace - God's undeserved favor towards you and I. God looking out for us. God, getting our back. God having our very best interest in His heart. Peace - A stillness and calm about life even in the midst of everyday life. A peace that allows us to move from fretting and frustration into a deeper faith in God. A peace that helps us sleep at night. A peace that clears our minds and hearts and allows us to enjoy life and relationships as we sit in traffic, correct mistakes at work, negotiate contracts, pay bills, study for exams, loose a game, and on and on the list goes.

Grace and peace. May we live in them a little bit today. Take a breath and ask God for that grace and peace and pray the same blessing for someone else right now.

ACT 16: 1-40 - Paul in Philippi

1 Paul went first to Derbe and then to Lystra, where there was a young disciple named Timothy. His mother was a Jewish believer, but his father was a Greek. 2 Timothy was well thought of by the believers in Lystra and Iconium, 3 so Paul wanted him to join them on their journey. In deference to the Jews of the area, he arranged for Timothy to be circumcised before they left, for everyone knew that his father was a Greek. 4 Then they went from town to town, instructing the believers to follow the decisions made by the apostles and elders in Jerusalem. 5 So the churches were strengthened in their faith and grew larger every day. 6 Next Paul and Silas traveled through the area of Phrygia and Galatia, because the Holy Spirit had prevented them from preaching the word in the province of Asia at that time. 7 Then coming to the borders of Mysia, they headed north for the province of Bithynia, but again the Spirit of Jesus did not allow them to go there. 8 So instead, they went on through Mysia to the seaport of Troas.
9 That night Paul had a vision: A man from Macedonia in northern Greece was standing there, pleading with him, “Come over to Macedonia and help us!” 10 So we decided to leave for Macedonia at once, having concluded that God was calling us to preach the Good News there.
Lydia of Philippi Believes in Jesus 11 We boarded a boat at Troas and sailed straight across to the island of Samothrace, and the next day we landed at Neapolis. 12 From there we reached Philippi, a major city of that district of Macedonia and a Roman colony. And we stayed there several days. 13 On the Sabbath we went a little way outside the city to a riverbank, where we thought people would be meeting for prayer, and we sat down to speak with some women who had gathered there. 14 One of them was Lydia from Thyatira, a merchant of expensive purple cloth, who worshiped God. As she listened to us, the Lord opened her heart, and she accepted what Paul was saying. 15 She was baptized along with other members of her household, and she asked us to be her guests. “If you agree that I am a true believer in the Lord,” she said, “come and stay at my home.” And she urged us until we agreed. 16 One day as we were going down to the place of prayer, we met a demon-possessed slave girl. She was a fortune-teller who earned a lot of money for her masters. 17 She followed Paul and the rest of us, shouting, “These men are servants of the Most High God, and they have come to tell you how to be saved.”
18 This went on day after day until Paul got so exasperated that he turned and said to the demon within her, “I command you in the name of Jesus Christ to come out of her.” And instantly it left her. 19 Her masters’ hopes of wealth were now shattered, so they grabbed Paul and Silas and dragged them before the authorities at the marketplace. 20 “The whole city is in an uproar because of these Jews!” they shouted to the city officials. 21 “They are teaching customs that are illegal for us Romans to practice.”
22 A mob quickly formed against Paul and Silas, and the city officials ordered them stripped and beaten with wooden rods. 23 They were severely beaten, and then they were thrown into prison. The jailer was ordered to make sure they didn’t escape. 24 So the jailer put them into the inner dungeon and clamped their feet in the stocks.
25 Around midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the other prisoners were listening. 26 Suddenly, there was a massive earthquake, and the prison was shaken to its foundations. All the doors immediately flew open, and the chains of every prisoner fell off! 27 The jailer woke up to see the prison doors wide open. He assumed the prisoners had escaped, so he drew his sword to kill himself. 28 But Paul shouted to him, “Stop! Don’t kill yourself! We are all here!” 29 The jailer called for lights and ran to the dungeon and fell down trembling before Paul and Silas. 30 Then he brought them out and asked, “Sirs, what must I do to be saved?” 31 They replied, “Believe in the Lord Jesus and you will be saved, along with everyone in your household.” 32 And they shared the word of the Lord with him and with all who lived in his household. 33 Even at that hour of the night, the jailer cared for them and washed their wounds. Then he and everyone in his household were immediately baptized. 34 He brought them into his house and set a meal before them, and he and his entire household rejoiced because they all believed in God. 35 The next morning the city officials sent the police to tell the jailer, “Let those men go!” 36 So the jailer told Paul, “The city officials have said you and Silas are free to leave. Go in peace.” 37 But Paul replied, “They have publicly beaten us without a trial and put us in prison—and we are Roman citizens. So now they want us to leave secretly? Certainly not! Let them come themselves to release us!” 38 When the police reported this, the city officials were alarmed to learn that Paul and Silas were Roman citizens. 39 So they came to the jail and apologized to them. Then they brought them out and begged them to leave the city. 40 When Paul and Silas left the prison, they returned to the home of Lydia. There they met with the believers and encouraged them once more. Then they left town.
Acts 16:1-40 NLT

For SCC - 3-30-08 Joy In Your Relationships

This past Sunday Sunrise began a new series based on the book of Philippians found in the New Testament of the Bible. The book is really a letter written to the followers of Christ in the city of Philippi. The letter is written from prison by the apostle Paul who had started the church in Philippi ten years earlier on one of his three trips that he and others took to begin sharing the Good News of Jesus Christ with others. You can read about about adventure in Philippi in Acts Chapter 16 of a Bible or in the post above.

Scott Salsman started the series with a message about experiencing Joy In Your Relationships. Sharing from the text found in chapter 1 of Philippians he shared these three truths that if we will apply them to our lives we can increase our joy quota in our relationships.

1. Put people in your thoughts and be thankful for them.
"I thank my God every time I remember you." Philippians 1:3
We tend to think about many things during the day. Scott encouraged us to think about people. Remember people. Paul remembered the people in Philippi and gave thanks for them. He remembered the positive and gave thanks for the people. Paul understood that people are a priority to God and therefore gave thanks as he remembered and prayed for those in Philippi. You and I need to give thanks for people in our lives.

2. Put people in your hearts.
"It is right for me to feel this way about all of you, since I have you in my heart..." Philippians 1:7a
Not only did Paul think about these people bu he also cherished his relationship with them and considered partners and friends. He cared for these people. He enjoyed these people. He had warm and fuzzy thoughts and feelings for these people and he expressed this to them throughout the letter. Two way for you and I to begin to put people into our hearts is to think about and practice partnership and fellowship. When we begin to flesh out that partnership and fellowship are important to God, relationships, and the Gospel we will begin to fan the flame of warm and fuzzy feelings for people in our lives the joy quota in our relationships will increase.

3. Put people in your prayers."And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, 10so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, 11filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God." Philippians 1:9-11
Praying for people will increase your joy quota as you spend time with God praying for others and watch God do a wonderful work in their lives. You can pray that they will grow in their capacity to love, in their knowledge of God's love, that they will live pure lives, and be filled with God truth and holiness as they live for Jesus Christ. Praying for others will also cause you to grow in Christ and will help you remember others, hold others in your heart and move you higher on the joyful scale of life.

Sunday, March 30, 2008

March 30 - A Letter to Sunrise

March 30, 2008

“I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” Philippians 1:3-6 NIV Bible
The above greeting is how Paul begins his letter to the people who are in the church at Philippi. In this greeting it is evident that he cares for the people, sees God working in their lives and is thankful that they are working together to help others experience the Gospel (Good News of Jesus Christ).
Paul’s greeting is a good description of how I and the other leaders in Sunrise feel about the people involved in Sunrise. I and the other leaders thank God for you as we pray for you and your family during the week. We see how God is working in your lives and continuing to strengthen your faith and life in Jesus Christ, and how we as a church desire others to come to know Jesus Christ as their personal Savior and Lord. What an honor and joy it is to serve Jesus Christ alongside you and others in Sunrise. Even just in the recent months it is evident that God is moving in the midst of Sunrise in the following ways:
He began the Ministry Partnership with Lee Memorial
How we worked together to make the move from meeting at Jolliff Middle School to Lee Memorial
The wonderful Candlelight Christmas Eve Service Sunrise and Lee Memorial hosted together
New faces on Sunday mornings and in Community Groups
The well attended Baptism Celebration
Adults recently accepting Jesus Christ as their Savior and Lord
Adults recently rededicating their lives to Jesus Christ
Children and Students having fun on Sunday mornings (Miracles Happen)
The great atmosphere during the Easter Breakfast and in the Easter Service
The smiles on peoples faces as they are welcomed into an open atmosphere for worship
May we as a church continue to be sensitive to God and His leadership as we continue to work together to share His goodness, joy and love with others. May we thank God for one another and encourage each other to “Delight yourselves in God, yes, find your joy in Him at all times.” Philippians 4:4 Phillips Translation of the Bible
The message today was about experiencing joy in your relationships. Relationships are a vital part of life and can be encouraging and at times discouraging. Paul, in his letter to the Philippians expresses joy in his relationship with them even though he is aware relationships experience difficult times. He is grateful for the people in the church at Philippi. He is encouraged by Timothy and Epaphroditus (how about that name), his friends and co-laborers in ministry. He encourages the people in Philippi to be humble and serve one another with joy, and to seek to resolve conflict for the sake of the Gospel. Because relationships are so vital to life I hope that you will decide to be thankful for the people in your life, be encouraged by those who help you in your walk with God and encourage them, and seek to live with a humble heart that honors and brings joy to others.
This week take some time to write in the space below people you are thankful for and people who encourage you in your walk with Jesus Christ and watch your joy quota rise as you do so. Then write down a few things you might be able to do for someone this week to see their joy quota increase and have fun going for it. May you have a joyful week experiencing joy in your relationships.

Rejoicing,
Steve Nethery

People I’m thankful for:

People who encourage me:

What I am going to do to bring joy to others:

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Going West

I am going west for a little family fun. I will begin posting again the week of March 30. have a good one.

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Synergy

Synergy - The action of two or more substances, organs, or organisms to achieve an effect of which each is individually incapable. Working together.
On Saturday, 3-15-08, Sunday, 3-16-08, and Wednesday, 3-19-08 I saw and experienced synergy. Synergy was a buzz word in the corporate world for a while. It is still used some, but not as much as it was a couple of years ago. It was also used in the church world lingo for a while and seems to have faded from the church world vocabulary. But not for me. I think it is a very Biblical word and I had the opportunity to experience it recently.

On Saturday, 3-15-08 people worked together to accomplish a great deal of work that involved packing, loading and moving.
On Sunday, 3-16-08 people cooperated with one another and God in order to help others worship, accept Christ, recommit their lives to Jesus and be encouraged in their faith walk. I also watched as people moved in harmony to rearrange a worship area so that it would be ready for a special Easter Service. People buzzing back and forth with positive attitudes, good ideas and an abundance of joy and laughter.
On Wednesday, 3-19-08 men came together and accomplished in two hours what it would have taken two days for one man to accomplish. And we had fun working together.

Synergy. It is found in Theology, Psychology, Spirituality, Sociology and in other "ologies". It is seen in science, history, the human body and in nature and in the Three Musketeers.
Synergy. It is not found in Meology. It is not found in the great trinity of self - Me, Myself and I. It is not found in mine not Thine.

Synergy calls for humility, pride, selflessness, self awareness, cooperation, confidence, and the desire to accomplish a greater good than yourself. Christianity is about Synergy. Working together to accomplish God's Kingdom Work.

Think Synergy.

1If you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any fellowship with the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, 2then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and purpose. 3Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. 4Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.
Philippians 2:1-4


Wednesday, March 19, 2008


Matthew 28:1-8

1After the Sabbath, at dawn on the first day of the week, Mary Magdalene and the other Mary went to look at the tomb. 2There was a violent earthquake, for an angel of the Lord came down from heaven and, going to the tomb, rolled back the stone and sat on it. 3His appearance was like lightning, and his clothes were white as snow. 4The guards were so afraid of him that they shook and became like dead men. 5The angel said to the women, "Do not be afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. 6He is not here; he has risen, just as he said. Come and see the place where he lay. 7Then go quickly and tell his disciples: 'He has risen from the dead and is going ahead of you into Galilee. There you will see him.' Now I have told you."
8So the women hurried away from the tomb, afraid yet filled with joy, and ran to tell his disciples. 9Suddenly Jesus met them. "Greetings," he said. They came to him, clasped his feet and worshiped him. 10Then Jesus said to them, "Do not be afraid. Go and tell my brothers to go to Galilee; there they will see me."

Mark 16:1-7

1When the Sabbath was over, Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James, and Salome bought spices so that they might go to anoint Jesus' body. 2Very early on the first day of the week, just after sunrise, they were on their way to the tomb 3and they asked each other, "Who will roll the stone away from the entrance of the tomb?" 4But when they looked up, they saw that the stone, which was very large, had been rolled away. 5As they entered the tomb, they saw a young man dressed in a white robe sitting on the right side, and they were alarmed. 6"Don't be alarmed," he said. "You are looking for Jesus the Nazarene, who was crucified. He has risen! He is not here. See the place where they laid him. 7But go, tell his disciples and Peter, 'He is going ahead of you into Galilee. There you will see him, just as he told you.' "

Luke 24:1-12

1On the first day of the week, very early in the morning, the women took the spices they had prepared and went to the tomb. 2They found the stone rolled away from the tomb, 3but when they entered, they did not find the body of the Lord Jesus. 4While they were wondering about this, suddenly two men in clothes that gleamed like lightning stood beside them. 5In their fright the women bowed down with their faces to the ground, but the men said to them, "Why do you look for the living among the dead? 6He is not here; he has risen! Remember how he told you, while he was still with you in Galilee: 7'The Son of Man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men, be crucified and on the third day be raised again.' " 8Then they remembered his words.
9When they came back from the tomb, they told all these things to the Eleven and to all the others. 10It was Mary Magdalene, Joanna, Mary the mother of James, and the others with them who told this to the apostles. 11But they did not believe the women, because their words seemed to them like nonsense. 12Peter, however, got up and ran to the tomb. Bending over, he saw the strips of linen lying by themselves, and he went away, wondering to himself what had happened.

John 20:1-16

1Early on the first day of the week, while it was still dark, Mary Magdalene went to the tomb and saw that the stone had been removed from the entrance. 2So she came running to Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one Jesus loved, and said, "They have taken the Lord out of the tomb, and we don't know where they have put him!" 3So Peter and the other disciple started for the tomb. 4Both were running, but the other disciple outran Peter and reached the tomb first. 5He bent over and looked in at the strips of linen lying there but did not go in. 6Then Simon Peter, who was behind him, arrived and went into the tomb. He saw the strips of linen lying there, 7as well as the burial cloth that had been around Jesus' head. The cloth was folded up by itself, separate from the linen. 8Finally the other disciple, who had reached the tomb first, also went inside. He saw and believed. 9(They still did not understand from Scripture that Jesus had to rise from the dead.) 10Then the disciples went back to their homes, 11but Mary stood outside the tomb crying. As she wept, she bent over to look into the tomb 12and saw two angels in white, seated where Jesus' body had been, one at the head and the other at the foot.
13They asked her, "Woman, why are you crying?"
"They have taken my Lord away," she said, "and I don't know where they have put him." 14At this, she turned around and saw Jesus standing there, but she did not realize that it was Jesus.
15"Woman," he said, "why are you crying? Who is it you are looking for?" Thinking he was the gardener, she said, "Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have put him, and I will get him." 16Jesus said to her, "Mary." She turned toward him and cried out in Aramaic, "Rabboni!" (which means Teacher).

Monday, March 17, 2008

Happy St. Patrick's Day

Wear Green. Drink something green. Pinch someone who isn't wearing green. Have some green eggs and ham. Attend a green parade. Speak with an Irish accent. Plant a shrub or tree. These are just a few things people will do to have fun at the work place and with friends to honor St. Patrick on this St. Patrick's Day.
It may be more fitting and honorable to the saint if we thank God today for our salvation. Pray for someone who does not yet know Christ. Invite someone to attend an Easter service or mass as our guest so they may hear about Jesus Christ. Become involved in beginning churches that help others experience Jesus. Begin serving Christ in a local church with our financial giving, talents, abilities, and spiritual gifts God has given us.

I hope yo uhave a fun St. Patrick's Day. Look at how Paul the apostle greeted the followers of Jesus in the letter of Philippians.
"1Paul and Timothy, servants of Christ Jesus, To all the saints in Christ Jesus at Philippi..."
May we consider this greeting and live as St. Patrick for just today.
See the following link for a little info about St. Pat.

Thursday, March 13, 2008

Doug Murren Leadership Thoughts

Developing Your Leadership Potential, Doug Murren on 3-11-08

Definition of Leadership - Influencing others to achieve together a worthy goal.

1. Know Yourself
Contemplation. Input from others. What makes you tick? Know how you are wired.
2. Know Your Strengths
Work in areas of strengths. Do what you are good at doing. Lead out of your strengths.
3. Recruit The Right People
Recruit competent people. Those around you are very important.
4. Learn
Life long learning.
5. Know You Are Vulnerable In Your Family Life
Pay attention and be sensitive to your family.
6. Stay Healthy
Exercise. have fun. What helps you relieve stress? Give stuff to God.
7. Have Balcony People In Your Life
Encouragement is needed. Cheerleaders are important.
8. Make Someone Else Successful
Help others do well. Help others succeed.
9. Develop A Life Plan
Spend your time in such a way that you get where you want to go. Plan. Time Management.
What are some life goals, yearly goals, learning goals, etc.
10. Make Quick Adjustments
Seize opportunities. Change is okay. Be Decisive.

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

I've Decided

I've decided... This is part of Philippians 1:18 found in The Message by Eugene Peterson. You can go to http://www.biblegateway.com/ and read Philippians 1 at your convenience.

I began the year 2008 reading through and through Psalm 34 for my personal Scripture reading time. A few weeks ago I started reading through Philippians for my personal reading and for message preparation because the church I pastor is beginning a series in Philippians in late March. This morning as I was reading this phrase jumped off the screen and into my mind and heart. I will seek to see to it that it jumps into my everyday life.
I've decided...
The author of this letter is writing from a difficult place and has faced some difficult circumstances and yet he decides to live in joy, cheering people on (even those who may want to hurt him), and deciding to see the positive aspect of life because of the hope he has in Jesus Christ and because he knows that Jesus Christ changed his life and is the only way for people to enter into heaven and experience real life, joy, meaning and purpose.

I've decided...
In this chapter of the book of Philippians it is clear that Paul is deciding to choose the joyful side of life and choosing to live for Jesus Christ. He decides.

I've decided...
Today. Well, at least for this morning I am deciding to live in Jesus and choose joy. I will realize that God's hope is real and joy is the place I want to dwell. I will decide to live for Jesus Christ and help others experience Jesus Christ today because He is the only way for a person to enter into heaven and only He brings true meaning, purpose and joy to life. I've decided to honor Jesus Christ and others today. I've decided to lift Christ up today in personal praise and worship. I decided God's Kingdom is my dwelling place and that makes me smile.

Monday, March 10, 2008

Eternal Life

11 And this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. 12 He who has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have life. 13 I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life.
I John 5:11-13

Wednesday, March 05, 2008

Philippians 4:4-8

4-5 Celebrate God all day, every day. I mean, revel in him! Make it as clear as you can to all you meet that you're on their side, working with them and not against them. Help them see that the Master is about to arrive. He could show up any minute!
6-7 Don't fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns. Before you know it, a sense of God's wholeness, everything coming together for good, will come and settle you down. It's wonderful what happens when Christ displaces worry at the center of your life.
8 Summing it all up, friends, I'd say you'll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious—the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse.

Tuesday, March 04, 2008

Community Group - How Can I Know What God Wants Me To Do?

I am in a Community Group that is a part of Sunrise Community Church. The group I am in is really three groups that meet in one home. We are currently working through a study about knowing God's will or what God wants me to do. Reviewing some today in preparation for our Community Group these thoughts stuck out:

Why should we expect God to show - through circumstances, people, or the inner work of the Holy Spirit - what He wants us to do, if we do not fully intend to obey Him?

The will of God is found in the Word of God. The more a person grows, the more he begins to think instinctively and habitually from a divine perspective. Howard Hendricks

God is everywhere, go where the money is? Scott Burks
This one is really an ease the tension comment that a friend of mine uses when people become uptight about career decisions.

Shine