Jobs/Careers - From 3 Minutes

7 Costly Interview Mistakes

Here's a good one referred from my colleague Eddie Heath, who deals with a million pastors and churches "courting" in Tidewater, Virginia. Thanks,Eddie!

When interviewing for a job, you can increase your chance for an offer by avoiding a few costly mistakes. Work toward eliminating these mistakes and watch your potential for a job offer escalate.

Being Late. Make sure you plan your route to the interview in advance. The best preparation is to make a trial run around the time of your interview. The trial run allows you to check out the traffic flow and to anticipate normal delays that you might not otherwise know about. Plan to arrive around 30 minutes in advance of your appointment, but don't announce your arrival more than 15 minutes ahead of the appointment. The extra time will allow you to review any notes or comments you plan to make.

Poor Paperwork. The paperwork is the person's first introduction to you as a person. If your paperwork doesn't pass the first inspection, you might not even make it to the interview. Ask a friend to review your entire package, including your resume and cover letter It is difficult to note even glaring errors if you have spent a lot of time reviewing and updating your information. If you are asked to present some special paperwork and you fail to do so, the interviewer will consider that an indication of how you follow through on assignments.

Failing to Listen. One of the most difficult portions of the interview process is listening. Some people stop listening and begin planning their answers before the interviewer has actually asked the questions While you might be formulating a great answer, you might be answering the wrong question. In this situation, you are getting ahead of the interviewer. In a similar way, you can lag behind the interviewer by worrying about your previous answers.
It is best to listen, replay the question in your head, decide on your response, and then respond with an appropriate response. Interviewers are not concerned with thoughtful silence for brief periods. Silence can help you formulate your answer and respond with confidence.

Venting. You should not use the interview time to explain how things could have been better at a previous job or to speak poorly of others. The interviewer will sometimes ask about a difficult situation or a change in your employment. Strive to be professional and factual in stating your answer. On the other hand, you don't need to pretend that you never had a difficult situation in the workplace. The best response includes how you handled yourself and what you learned in a less-than-ideal situation.

Being in Charge of the Interview. You should not be the one in charge of the interview. Being too aggressive will not get you to the top of the "need to hire" list. Allow the interviewer to choose which topics are covered. Assertiveness is needed in getting an interview, but you don't want to be so assertive that you step over the boundaries usually implied for the interviewee.

Not Being Professional. Your professionalism needs to shine during the job interview. Your first impression will usually come from your physical presentation. Although clothing plays a large part of the first impression, your body language, eye contact, health, and grooming also impacts a first impression. If you come across as arrogant, it is unlikely that you will be hired. But if you come across as professionally competent, your name will rise to the top.

Failing to Research the Company. At some point in the interview you need to indicate your awareness of the work of the company. Before the interview, you should have some knowledge of what would be expected of you in your position. Knowledge of the company's history and reputation in the community will help you know how to ask questions about the company during the interview time.

Individuals have lost job offers for making some of these common interview mistakes. Remember to approach each interview with the goal of getting a job offer. As you work at perfecting your job interview skills, you will eventually get job offer.

Joy Emery is a wife, a mother of three, a conference leader, and a career and workplace writer for HomeLife magazine. She and her family live in Mt. Juliet, Tennessee.

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Taken from http://www.rasnet.org/

How To Deal With Setbacks

Dealing With Setbacks

For SCC & LMBC - The Union

In the late Summer and early Fall of 2007 Sunrise Community Church and Lee Memorial Baptist Church began discussing the possibility of a ministry partnership between the two churches that involved various facets of ministry. The ministry partnership officially began on Tuesday evening, December 24, 2007 with a Combined Candlelight Christmas Eve Service held at Lee Memorial in the Family Life Center. The ministry partnership is moving along so well that on Sunday, November 2, 2008 both churches agreed to move forward and begin discussing the possibility of the two churches becoming one. The leaders from each church have since met once a month to discuss the union. The meetings are very positive and progress is being made toward a union. Five special Ministry Transition Teams (MTT) have been formed to discuss specific areas of ministry and develop a plan to help the churches transition from two to one church. Please continue to pray for a focus on reaching out, and for unity and cooperation. Please feel free to contact any leader with questions, ideas or suggestion you may have.

The following people are serving together on the Joint Leadership Team (JLT) and work close with one another, the Ministry Transition Teams (MTT) and people who are involved in each church: Tommy Bower, Mike Bailey, Jerry Onhaizer, Jeff Gardner, Jim McNeil, Scott Salsman, Ruth Nethery, Steve Gabriele, Jon Trude, Jenny Michonski and Steve Nethery. The JLT currently meets every third Saturday of each month from 9:00-11:00 AM to discuss the union of the two churches, hear reports from the MTT, pray, plan and prepare ministry. We serve Christ, you and those who do not yet know Christ. We are working together to stay focused on leading people to become totally committed followers of Jesus Christ. The meetings are upbeat, positive, full of energy and dialogue, and lead to positive results and work to be done by leaders and others, like you, who are involved in making a difference. As we move through the year and seek to become one church we all will need to keep praying, be involved and keep having fun as we touch lives in this area, nationally and internationally. We will need to adopt the motto, “All (us) for One (Jesus Christ) and One for all”, and live it out as we encourage one another and help others discover God’s love.

The five MTT’s that have been formed are evaluating, studying, discussing and making recommendations for various aspects of ministry that will help us better be the church, bring glory to God and develop followers of Jesus Christ. The teams are: Worship Team, Evangelism Team, Financial Team, Children’s/Student Ministry Team, and a Constitution/Guiding Document Team. These teams are represented by people from both Sunrise Community Church and Lee Memorial Baptist Church. They are meeting monthly and you may hear from them for your input and ideas.

Your prayers for a focus on reaching out, a spirit of unity and an attitude of cooperation are greatly needed. God is answering yes and will continue to answer yes to these prayers if we ask in humility and seek to live in line with our prayers. Your ideas, suggestions, and questions are welcome. We as leaders are serving alongside you as we follow Jesus Christ. All of the JLT members are excited about the union. We are glad to see God moving in our midst and touching lives. We are gazing forward to the future and a new beginning as two churches become one so we can better serve Jesus Christ, others, and one another. As we move forward all of the JLT members agree a new name needs to be determined, so we will seek to develop a new name for the new church. We want and need you to be involved in this process. Beginning, Sunday, April 5 through Sunday, May 17, 2009 we all will have the opportunity for six weeks to suggest names for the new church family. There will be cards all over the building that you can pick up and write your name suggestion on, and then place it in designated and colorful boxes located at the entrance to the 10:00 and 11:15 AM worship services. Please be praying about this opportunity and let’s have fun being creative as we build unity through the process of choosing a new name. All the names suggested will be looked at by the JLT and eventually a name will be recommended after much prayer, discussion and agreement.

We are under construction. “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things He planned for us long ago.” Ephesians 2:10 NLT. It is energizing to be part of what God started. “And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue His work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.” Philippians 1:6 NLT. May we continue to serve together as we share the good news of Jesus Christ with our family, friends, neighbors, communities and many others. Please know that the JLT members need your prayers. Please know that people you serve with in this alliance need your prayers. Your family members need your prayers. Please take time on a daily basis to offer yourself to God and lift others up in prayer. We as leaders pray for you. We thank God for you and pray that you will live in His love and strength.

As we venture forward feel free to contact any JLT member. Remember, we are in this journey together. As we move forward we will learn, grow and have fun on this voyage of developing one church that is touching lives, growing, sharing, and serving so others can join us on this adventure called “following Jesus Christ”. Thanks for your time. God bless you.

Funny Pics From A Friend

A Sign Of The Times - Spring

Quotes - The Christ Of Easter, Calvin Miller

Do you long for the power of living in Christ's power? Stand still. Receive.

He lives! What marvelous madness. What glorious insanity.

Live in such genuine simplicity that who you are is who you seem to be.

"Thy will be done" is loves noblest proverb.

Work Pray Hope

Our daughter recently received a letter of acceptance from George Mason Univ. (The Green Machine). She has thus far been accepted to all colleges to which she applied. This letter was the most exciting because this is where she really wants to attend at this time in her life. We celebrated with balloons, many congrats, phone calls and a dinner. She has worked, prayed and hoped. Now she will work, pray and hope even more. Her mom and I will work, pray and hope even more. I must say, "there are open doors in life, we just have to work, pray and hope, and MOVE."

In all labor there is profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty. Proverbs 14:23

The horse is prepared for battle, but the victory belongs to the Lord. Proverbs 21:31

Involvement - Getting In The Game

This couple recently helped "Extreme Homemaker: Home Edition" with a project in NC. They just drove down, jumped in and started helping. They went for it and had a blast. They have a story to tell because they got involved. They are pumped. People they visit with about this experience are pumped. Serving and making a difference is a wonderful part of life. Get involved. Serve Christ in your local church. Give your life to Christ and serve. Thanks Jay and Crystal for your story and stories. Thanks for making a difference in NC and VA. Thanks for helping people in the Hampton Roads area accept JC and walk w JC. It is a privilege to serve w you guys and many other is SCC. Jay, "I got this." LOL.

Serve

1 Before the Passover celebration, Jesus knew that his hour had come to leave this world and return to his Father. He had loved his disciples during his ministry on earth, and now he loved them to the very end. 2 It was time for supper, and the devil had already prompted Judas, son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. 3 Jesus knew that the Father had given him authority over everything and that he had come from God and would return to God. 4 So he got up from the table, took off his robe, wrapped a towel around his waist, 5 and poured water into a basin. Then he began to wash the disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel he had around him.
6 When Jesus came to Simon Peter, Peter said to him, “Lord, are you going to wash my feet?”
7 Jesus replied, “You don’t understand now what I am doing, but someday you will.”
8 “No,” Peter protested, “you will never ever wash my feet!”
Jesus replied, “Unless I wash you, you won’t belong to me.”
9 Simon Peter exclaimed, “Then wash my hands and head as well, Lord, not just my feet!”
10 Jesus replied, “A person who has bathed all over does not need to wash, except for the feet, to be entirely clean. And you disciples are clean, but not all of you.” 11 For Jesus knew who would betray him. That is what he meant when he said, “Not all of you are clean.”
12 After washing their feet, he put on his robe again and sat down and asked, “Do you understand what I was doing? 13 You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and you are right, because that’s what I am. 14 And since I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you ought to wash each other’s feet. 15 I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you. 16 I tell you the truth, slaves are not greater than their master. Nor is the messenger more important than the one who sends the message. 17 Now that you know these things, God will bless you for doing them.

John 13:1-17

Serious Times - Day After St. Patrick's Day

SERIOUS TIMES Serious Times
Vol. 5, No. 5

May We All be Irish

It was a pagan world, outside the borders of the accepted disciplines and understandings of civilization. But spiritual. Deeply spiritual. The supernatural was everywhere, in places and days, people and events, filling their lives with images, symbols and ritual. The earth and all in it was sacred; gods and goddesses roamed the landscape; the world of magic was embraced; but there was no God who sat in Heaven, and no knowledge of a Christ who had come to earth.

Into this postmodern milieu, 1500 years before postmodernism was born, came Patrick, the patron saint and national apostle of Ireland (c. 5th century).

Patrick did not come to his task by choice. Kidnapped at the age of fifteen from his father’s villa in Britain, he was enslaved in Ireland and made to serve as a shepherd. There he came into the fullness of Christian faith, and after six years of praying, finally made his escape. But upon reaching his homeland, he had a dream where a man who seemed to come from Ireland handed him a letter titled “The Voice of the Irish,” and at the same time heard the voices of those who lived “beside the Wood of Foclut, which lies near the Western Sea” asking him to “come back and walk once more among us.” Patrick writes that he was “pierced to my heart’s core.”

Patrick returned to Ireland. Not as a slave, but as a missionary.

The legends surrounding Patrick are, well, legendary. He reportedly drove the snakes out of Ireland into the sea. Whether true or not, there are no snakes in Ireland to this day. Another is that he used the shamrock to explain the Trinity. There may be some truth to this; pointing back to Patrick, the shamrock is the national flower of Ireland. He is to have confronted and overpowered the druids; fasted for forty days and nights on a holy mountain; and openly challenged a king by lighting a fire for an Easter celebration in open opposition to the edict that only one fire was to burn in the land, and that for the pagan feast of Bealtaine.

What is most apparent is that Patrick looked for ways to connect the message of Christ to a pagan, but supernaturalized, world. In doing so, he imaginatively put himself in the position of the Irish. Looking for what they held in common, Patrick made clear that he, too, embraced a world full of magic. As Thomas Cahill noted, the difference between Patrick’s magic and the magic of the druids was that in Patrick’s world, “all beings and events come from the hand of a good God”. When Patrick arrived, the Irish were still practicing human sacrifice; Patrick made it clear that through Christ’s supreme sacrifice, such offerings were no longer needed. Patrick took an entire culture’s leanings toward the spiritual and led them to Christ.

During Patrick’s time, all who lived outside of the boundaries, or walls, of Rome were called “barbarians” (literally, “without the walls”), and were to be avoided at all costs. The Irish were barbarians. Cahill writes that Patrick was the first Christian missionary to a culture outside of Rome’s world; “The step he took was in its way as bold as Columbus’s.” Patrick simply wrote, “I came in God’s strength...and had nothing to fear.” As a result, Maire B. De Paor writes that Patrick “not only changed the course of Irish history but made Ireland the burning and shining light of barbarian Europe for the best part of the next thousand years.”

So on the day that “everyone is Irish,” let’s wish for it to be of the kind modeled by the saint whose name marks the day.

James Emery White

Sources

The Confession of Saint Patrick, translated by John Skinner (New York: Image/Doubleday, 1998). There are only two surviving works that can be attributed to Patrick: his Confessio (“Confession”) and Epistola (his “Letter to Coroticus”).

Thomas Cahill, How the Irish Saved Civilization, (New York: Nan Talese/Doubleday, 1995).

Maire B. De Paor, Patrick: The Pilgrim Apostle of Ireland (New York: Regan/HarperCollins, 1998).

*Adapted from James Emery White, Serious Times (Downers Grove: Intervarsity Press).

A Little Secret - Comic Strip Bibles

Some Quotes

Quotes from The Christ Of Easter, Calvin Miller.

God's glory often lives in the deepest recesses of our pain.

For the Christian, weeping is seasonal, joy eternal.

To behold the Christ should call to life the wonder and worship lying dead within us.

No task to which the father has called you is insignificant.

Happy St. Patrick's Day

St. Patrick

Fear and Doubt

Some say if only my fears and doubts will leave I will get to work. But instead you should get to work and then your fears and doubts will leave. - D.L. Moody

First Century Oikos - 21st Century Social Networking

I have thought for about ten years now the 1st century church is needed in the 21st century. I do not know if I want to experience the persecution the early followers of JC experienced, but social networking is nothing new. - Neth

The Keys to Church Growth
author: Chip Arn

Chip Arn, president and CEO of Church Growth Incorporated, visited Group recently, and Rev! had the opportunity to sit down with him at length. This is a small excerpt from that discussion.
Between you and your father, Win, you've studied church growth and helped churches to accomplish it for 35 years. Our culture has changed a lot in that time. Are there some things that used to be true of church growth that we now need to unlearn?

It's important to understand that there's a difference between church growth principles and church growth methods. The methods change, but the principles are really timeless. One of the most important of them is as true today as it was in the New Testament: the social networking principle. In the hundreds of times I've surveyed congregations—a total of at least 50,000 people or more—and asked why each person became a Christian, there's a list of eight things that are always mentioned.
A special need arose in my life, such as a death or catastrophe. That's 1 percent to 2 percent.
A spontaneous walk-in—I just decided to go to church one Sunday. That's 2 percent to 3 percent.
I had a relationship with a pastor or someone else on church staff. That varies from 1 percent to 6 percent.
I was visited; somebody just knocked on my door. That's 1 percent to 2 percent and continually dropping.
I participated in Sunday school or some other Christian education. That's 4 percent to 5 percent.
Participation in evangelistic crusades, television, and radio ministries is less than 1 percent.
Church programs, such as special events or other advertised activities, drew 2 percent to 3 percent of those surveyed. If you've been following the numbers, the percentages are still very low and there's only one item left to list.
A friend or relative talked to me about Jesus. Of all the tens of thousands of people we surveyed, 75 to 90 percent of them said they're Christians because a friend or relative talked to them about Christ. That's not just a U.S. thing, that holds true from my visits to Korea and India as well.
The word that comes up often in the New Testament is oikos, frequently translated as household or house. In the first century that really meant a lot of people, such as extended family, servants, and servants' families. There's some indication that it might even have included work associates. So the timeless principle is that we need to be intentional about identifying and utilizing existing social networks.
It's amazing that the percentage is that high. How do you effectively utilize social networks?
That question really leads to another timeless principle: the principle of receptivity. When Jesus sent his disciples out, he told them to go to the towns and villages that will listen to you and shake the dust off your feet in the places that won't. Paul stayed much longer in places like Ephesus that were receptive, and less time in places like Athens that were resistant. So good church growth strategy says within your community there are different groupings of people, some of whom will be more receptive than others. And some people will be receptive to one church and not another, so you can't expect everyone to respond to your style. Look for receptive people and work there.
Another principle is to make evangelism a priority. It's a fascinating dynamic to observe the life cycle of churches. The general observation is that the longer a church exists, the more the people in leadership become concerned with self-preservation and self-service, and less concerned with their original goal of reaching people. Growing churches continue to focus on outreach.
Presumably the final principle is related to our conversation on assimilation (published in the 11/24/08 issue), so that once those friends do come to church they keep coming.
Exactly. Welcoming new believers into the fold and building community with them is a universal principle. It's not a natural thing for outsiders to be automatically welcomed into a new group. Effective growing churches will intentionally develop systems and strategies to build a consciousness in the congregation to welcome newcomers.

Chip Arn is president and CEO of Church Growth Incorporated.
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A Little Secret - Worship (3-11-09)

No More Breakfast

Made To Worship - Chris Tomlin

Saw The Watchmen

I went to see the watchmen yesterday afternoon with a friend and fellow leader in Sunrise. Interesting. Passionate, dark, cruel, philosophical, intriguing, and the list goes. Scread (scim and read) the graphic novel last night. Interesting read and even more striking was the way it is pieced together. Creative, to say the least.

This led me to pull out "The Graphic Bible" I purchased years ago.

Read the story of Elijah and Elisha this morn. Thrilling, convicting, passionate, sad, hopeful, and on the list goes. The illustrations, script, lettering and story are compelling. Thank God for the guys who put this together. If you have children go buy this book. Read it your children. Read it yourself. It will inspire you to walk with God and be a little more creative in your life at home and work. Enticing.

Worship - Everywhere I Go

Under Construction

SCC began a new weekend series on Sunday, 3-8-09. Under Construction is about God at work in our lives in in His church.

For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them. Ephesians 2:10

For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus. Philippians 1:6

11And He gave some as apostles, and some as prophets, and some as evangelists, and some as pastors and teachers, 12 for the equipping of the saints for the work of service, to the building up of the body of Christ; 13 until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ. Ephesians 4:11-13

13 When Jesus came to the region of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, "Who do people say the Son of Man is?" 14 They replied, "Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah; and still others, Jeremiah or one of the prophets." 15 "But what about you?" he asked. "Who do you say I am?" 16 Simon Peter answered, "You are the Christ, the Son of the living God." 17 Jesus replied, "Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by man, but by my Father in heaven. 18 And I tell you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it. 19I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven; whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven." 20Then he warned his disciples not to tell anyone that he was the Christ. Matthew 16:13-20

Enjoy

The Interview With God

Desire - Matthew 6:19-33

¹⁹"Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. ²⁰But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. ²¹For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

²²"The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are good, your whole body will be full of light. ²³But if your eyes are bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light within you is darkness, how great is that darkness!

²⁴"No one can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and Money.

²⁵"Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? ²⁶Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? ²⁷Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?

²⁸"And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. ²⁹Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. ³⁰If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? ³¹So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' ³²For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. ³³But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. ³⁴Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

A New Heart

²⁶ And I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you. I will take out your stony, stubborn heart and give you a tender, responsive heart. ²⁷ And I will put my Spirit in you so that you will follow my decrees and be careful to obey my regulations.
Ezekiel 36:26-27

XXX Church

XXX Church is a ministry that is helping people all over the world. They are Christ centered and Biblical. They want to help people live pure lives. This site is full of information and inspiration.

The Money Rant

Baptism Celebration - Sunday Eve, 3-1-09

The Baptism Celebration was sweet. It is a beautiful privilege to celebrate Christ and new beginnings with people. Thanks to all who attended and brought a little bite to eat as a part of the celebration. Baptisms are sign of a church that is being the church and making disciples. Baptisms are important to the life of a church because they are testimonies of people accepting Jesus Christ, choosing to follow Jesus Christ and being supported by followers of Jesus in their faith walk. May Sunrise/Lee stay focused on helping lead people to become totally committed followers of Jesus Christ.

Money Quotes - Good Sense

The lust for affluence in contemporary society has become psychotic; it has completely lost touch with reality. - Richard J. Foster

The poorest man I know is the man who has nothing but money. - John D. Rockefeller

He who provides for this life but takes no care for eternity is wise for a moment but a fool forever. - John Tillotson

Their property held them in chains.

They think of themselves as owners;

whereas it is they rather who

are owned. Enslaved as they are

to their own property,

they are not the masters of their money but its slaves. - Cyprian

Give a person everything they want and at that moment, everything will not be everything. - Immanuel Kant

If you would make a person happy, add not to their possessions, but subtract from the sum of

their desires.

Blessed are those who can give without remembering, and receive without forgetting.

The modern American is a person who drives a bank-financed car over a bond-financed highway
on credit card gas to open a charge account at a department store, so they can fill up their savings-and-loan-financed home with installment-purchased furniture!

Possession is an obsession in our culture. - Richard J. Foster

It’s not the high

cost of living that gets you. . .

it’s the cost of high living!

Consumers are in an endless, hopeless search for happiness through the confiscation

of things. - Thomas O’Quinn

Affluenza turns the good life into the goods life. - Richard Swenson

When your outgo
exceeds your income,
your upkeep
will be your downfall!

These quotes are taken from Good Sense Budget Course, Dick Towner and John Tofilon

Right On

Dave Ramsey Article

Ahead

^12-14I'm not saying that I have this all together, that I have it made. But I am well on my way, reaching out for Christ, who has so wondrously reached out for me. Friends, don't get me wrong: By no means do I count myself an expert in all of this, but I've got my eye on the goal, where God is beckoning us onward—to Jesus. I'm off and running, and I'm not turning back. ^15-16So let's keep focused on that goal, those of us who want everything God has for us. If any of you have something else in mind, something less than total commitment, God will clear your blurred vision—you'll see it yet! Now that we're on the right track, let's stay on it.
Philippians 3:12-16

Let It Snow

Hoping for snow. Living in expectation. Fun stuff. The way to live. W/out expectation one really isn't living.

The Christain Life

The Christian life really should be Madi Gras (Fat Tuesday), Lent, Easter, Thanksgiving, Christmas and Birthdays are rolled up in a nice and tasty roll with lots and lots of Hidden Valley Ranch Dressing (or your fav) and enjoying it with our hearts and heads bowed along with lots and lots of other people.

Man, I Struggle With This. Thank God.

35 Then James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came over and spoke to him. “Teacher,” they said, “we want you to do us a favor.”
36 “What is your request?” he asked.
37 They replied, “When you sit on your glorious throne, we want to sit in places of honor next to you, one on your right and the other on your left.”
38 But Jesus said to them, “You don’t know what you are asking! Are you able to drink from the bitter cup of suffering I am about to drink? Are you able to be baptized with the baptism of suffering I must be baptized with?”
39 “Oh yes,” they replied, “we are able!”
Then Jesus told them, “You will indeed drink from my bitter cup and be baptized with my baptism of suffering. 40 But I have no right to say who will sit on my right or my left. God has prepared those places for the ones he has chosen.”
41 When the ten other disciples heard what James and John had asked, they were indignant. 42 So Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. 43 But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, 44 and whoever wants to be first among you must be the slave of everyone else. 45 For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

Mark 10:35-45

Lent

It was brought to my attention yesterday that Lent begins on Wed. 2-25-09. It was brought to my attention by my children and my wife. Not that we will participate (maybe), but my high school children are having mini Madi Gras in some of their classes today and my mother-in-law will participate in Lent. I know friends, peers, fellow ministers and a few SCC church members who have participated in Lent and may do the same this year a we look forward to Easter Sunday. I know a little about Lent and Easter. I know that I, as a follower of Jesus Christ, should practice Lent not just during Lent and that I should live Easter not just at Easter. Lent - Focusing on God. Giving God my desires, my hopes, my sins, my life. Easter - Hope. Life. New. Celebration. Both of them are about God. God's character. God's power. God's redemption. God working in my life and me living for God. So as I think about Lent and Easter and as you think about Lent and Easter may we think about God. Hope. Renewal. Cleansing. Service. Sacrifice. Giving. Purity. Forgiveness. Healthy relationships. God's Kingdom. Loving God and loving others, and ....

I am thankful for the season/days of Lent and for Easter Sunday, but may I realize they are much more than a season and a day. They really are the way I am to live. Same for you if you are a follower of JC.

7 He (God) is so rich in kindness and grace that he purchased our freedom with the blood of his Son and forgave our sins. 8 He has showered his kindness on us, along with all wisdom and understanding. Ephesians 1:7-8

8 God saved you by his grace when you believed. And you can’t take credit for this; it is a gift from God. 9 Salvation is not a reward for the good things we have done, so none of us can boast about it. 10 For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago. Ephesians 2:8-10

20 My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. Galatians 2:20

$3.00

“I would like to buy $3 worth of God, please. Not enough to explode my soul or disturb my sleep, but just enough to equal a cup of warm milk or a snooze in the sunshine. I don’t want enough of Him to make me love a black man or pick beets with a migrant. I want ecstasy, not transformation. I want the warmth of the womb not a new birth. I’d like to buy $3 worth of God, please.”- Wilbur Reese

MAY WE MOVE WAY PAST THIS.

From "expect" via podcast by Erwin McManus (2)

We've all known our moments of fear. We've all been the best of cowards. We've all been weak and feeble at times.

Here may be the dilemma for some. You may only know who you have been, but you do not realize who you are becoming. You are no longer one who has to shrink back.

It should not surprise you that you cannot live a life of dreams unless you begin to live a life of expectation.

If you are optimistic it is because you are deluded. You are wandering in the desert and you see and oasis. No wonder people thing you are out of your mind it is because you are. The pessimistic and cynic sees what is, the optimist sees what can become. What is possible.

The world needs you to believe. Believe. Expect.

For those who think you cannot do this:

Hebrews 12:12 "Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees." My Indian name is Feeble Arms and your Weak Knees. People need to see us step out and up of our fears so they can find healing through your faith. Hebrews 12:13 "Make level paths for your feet, so that the lame may not be disabled, but rather healed."

The idealist, optimist, the believer, the one who sees what doesn't exist but refuses to believe it cannot exist. That's the person who changes the world. Only the believer can create the future.

AMEN, Steve Nethery

From "expect" via podcast by Erwin McManus

There are some of us who are like the walking dead because when we wake up in the morning there is not something compelling, something that demands our lives, something that demands our existence.

The difference between those who overcome failure and those are overcome by failure:
Those overcome by failure take failure personally, think it is pervasive and view it as permanent. Those who overcome failure do not take it personally, do not think is is pervasive and do not view it as permanent. From Learned Optimism, Martin Seligman.

35 So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. 36 You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised. 37 For in just a very little while, "He who is coming will come and will not delay. 38 But my righteous one will live by faith. And if he shrinks back, I will not be pleased with him." 39 But we are not of those who shrink back and are destroyed, but of those who believe and are saved.

Hebrews 10:35-39

More Later On, Nethery

Oh Yeah!!!

A Child's Bible Report. Just For Fun. :)

Through the eyes of a child: The Children's Bible in a Nutshell
In the beginning, which occurred near the start, there was nothing but God, darkness, and some gas. The Bible says,'The Lord thy God is one, but I think He must be a lot older than that. Anyway, God said, 'Give me a light!' and someone did. Then God made the world. He split the Adam and made Eve. Adam and Eve were naked, but they weren't embarrassed because mirrors hadn't been invented yet. Adam and Eve disobeyed God by eating one bad apple, so they were driven from the Garden of Eden. Not sure what they were driven in though, because they didn't have cars. Adam and Eve had a son, Cain, who hated his brother as long as he was Abel. Pretty soon all of the early people died off, except for Methuselah, who lived to be like a million or something. One of the next important people was Noah, who was a good guy, but one of his kids was kind of a Ham. Noah built a large boat and put his family and some animals on it. He asked some other people to join him, but they said they would have to take a rain check. After Noah came Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. Jacob was more famous than his brother, Esau, because Esau sold Jacob his birthmark in exchange for some pot roast. Jacob had a son named Joseph who wore a really loud sports coat. Another important Bible guy is Moses, whose real name was Charlton Heston. Moses led the Israel Lights out of Egypt and away from the evil Pharaoh after God sent ten plagues on Pharaoh's people. These plagues included frogs, mice, lice, bowels, and no cable TV. God fed the Israel Lights every day with manicotti. Then he gave them His Top Ten Commandments. These include: don't lie, cheat, smoke, dance, or covet your neighbor's stuff. Oh, yeah, I just thought of one more:Humor thy father and thy mother. One of Moses' best helpers was Joshua who was the first Bible guy to use spies. Joshua fought the battle of Geritol and the fence fell over on the town. After Joshua came David. He got to be king by killing a giant with a slingshot. He had a son named Solomon who had about 300 wives and 500 porcupines. My teacher says he was wise, but that doesn't sound very wise to me. After Solomon there were a bunch of major league prophets. One of these was Jonah, who was swallowed by a big whale and then barfed up on the shore. There were also some minor league prophets, but I guess we don't have to worry about them. After the Old Testament came the New Testament. Jesus is the star of The New. He was born in Bethlehem in a barn. (I wish I had been born in a barn too, because my mom is always saying to me, 'Close the door! Were you born in a barn?' It would be nice to say, 'As a matter of fact, I was.') During His life, Jesus had many arguments with sinners like the Pharisees and the Democrats. Jesus also had twelve opossums.The worst one was Judas Asparagus. Judas was so evil that they named a terrible vegetable after him. Jesus was a great man. He healed many leopards and even preached to some Germans on the Mount. But the Democrats and all those guys put Jesus on trial before Pontius the Pilot. Pilot didn't stick up for Jesus. He just washed his hands instead. Anyways, Jesus died for our sins, then came back to life again. He went up to Heaven but will be back at the end of the Aluminum. His return is foretold in the book of Revolution.

CAN

Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as you can. - Charles Wesley

A Point to Ponder

Carefully avoid in yourself those things which disturb you in others. - T. aKempis

Prayer - Listening

Hearing God's Voice is a good link to visit and peruse for your personal growth.

How To Listen To God is a good book on listening to and obeying God.

Quote For Thought

"It's amazing how many people who are standing alone wish they weren't." Eric Bryant

I have stood alone and did not like it. I have gone into rooms alone and did not like it. I have walked into a gatherings alone and did not like it. It is no fun. I can tell you that when I was standing alone and a person came over and introduced themselves to me and began a light conversation it felt good. It was comforting. I can tell you that had people not walked up to me years ago I may not be serving Christ or following Christ. Thanks to Terry Hitt, Mr. and Mrs. Burks, Mr. and Mrs. Hathaway, Kyle Klemcke, Bill Pursely, Debbie Morgan, David Levell, Bill Lovelace, and many others who introduced themselves to me when I was standing alone or maybe I just felt I was standing alone. "Hi, my name is ..."

Letter From God

Lamentations 3:21-26

21 Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope:
22 Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail.
23 They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
24 I say to myself, "The LORD is my portion; therefore I will wait for him."
25 The LORD is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him;
26 it is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the LORD.

To Ponder

God loves us the way we are, but He loves us too much to leave us that way. - Leighton Ford

Cardboard Stories By Richland Hills

The link below will take you to the video clip Sunrise showed in the weekend worship experience on 2-1-09.

http://www.rhchurch.org/pages/cardboard-testimonies/

Economy Encouragement - The Bailout Bull

Dave Ramsey on the Financial Situation in America

Randy Forbes on the Bailout

A Model Prayer From Jesus

Some thoughts about the Lord's Prayer. This is a decent link to gain some insight into the Lord's Prayer.

1st Grade Teacher - Thank God

I have had recent correspondence with my brother, sister, mom and my first grade Teacher. Miss Schaffner was a Nethery family favorite at City View School in Wichita Falls, TX. I remember her being strict yet very nice. First grade was the best three years of my life (JK). I visited with my mom about her today. We both had very positive comments and memories. My brother and I do not remember many of our elementary teachers, but we remember Miss Schaffner. She came into contact with our family recently through my brothers website. Cool stuff. My sister and I corresponded with her just this week via email. She was kind, gracious and still a teacher. What a lady. While I was serving at First Baptist Church in Henrietta, TX Miss Schaffner had moved back into Henrietta and became a member of FBC. That was cool. I got to see her almost every weekend. Kept me on my toes because I did not want Miss Schaffner's paddle coming out for business. What fun. So cheers to Miss Schaffner-Teauge. Miss Schaffner, I apologize for not holding my pencil and pen properly while writing. You taught me the proper method, I just can't remember, but I can spell NETHERY.

"I thank my God every time I remember you." Philippians 1:3

Say Hello To Your Neighbor

Older Man Dies In Cold Weather

This article is heart breaking. It is sad that the man died. But what is really sad is the reaction of family members, neighbors and people who should take responsibility, yet are blaming others. God help us. God help us. By the way, say, "hello", to your neighbor.

Helping The Homeless, Part 3

Leadership Thought - Vision

Vision is at the very core of leadership. Take vision away from a leader and you cut out his or her heart. Vision is the fuel that leaders run on. It's the fire that ignites the passion of followers. - Bill Hybels, Courageous Leadership (Zondervan, 2002)

Guest Blog, Pam Doane: Blessing - Helping - Serving - Making A Difference

Our church is hosting a place for the homeless to sleep this week. It started out as usual with many helping and then as the week goes on it tapers off. We have been averaging around 115 homeless people looking for a warm place to sleep and a hot meal (last night we had 111). They come with only the clothes on their back. We have had the people in our church provide coats, toiletry items, etc. (Back in November our church started a coat drive and it ended in December. They had to be clean coats if they were not new.) We were able to provide a warm coat for most who needed one. We also had clothing for those who needed warm clothing.

We even had a group of young boys from a boys home come and help serve. Their leader stated that it would be good for them to give back to their community. They were all eager to help and I pray they came away as I did with a full heart of joy knowing we did something good for someone who needed it.

If you have not had an opportunity to help in a soup kitchen or something similar to what our church is doing I highly recommend it. You will come away so appreciative of what God has blessed you with (a warm bed, a hot shower, a soft chair to sit in, etc.) all the little things we take for granted on a daily basis.

With Love and Many Blessings,
Pam

Helping The Homeless, Part 2

Read And Practice

Reimagining Evangelism at CBD

This is good stuff for those of us who want to help others experience God's love as we have and are experiencing it in our lives. I hope and pray every believer will want to share God's love in a very real way with others.

Leadership Thought - This Is Right On

What Is Your PDP?

allaboutprayer.org

The Prayer of Jabez

Books Mentioned On 1-18-09

Bruce Wilkinson

Dare You To Move

This song is a little old, but still right on. I heard it twice this week. Make a move.

Chasing Daylight - A Guest Blog - Jon Trude

Jon Trude posted the below on SCC's website. Good stuff.

Hi everyone! I just wanted to drop you all a line and let you know that things are going great out here in OKC! It have been wicked cold and windy but past that everything is great! I had something that I wanted to share with all of you reading this.

During my flight to Houston I had one of those WOW moments that God puts in your life. We took off from Norfolk around 4:30ish and started heading west. Being winter, I thought to myself that the sun would be setting soon and we would be able to see the lights of the cities below. After they allowed the electronic devices, I pulled out my ipod and spaced out for about an hour. As soon snapped out of my trance, I looked out my window to see if I could tell which city we were over. Than it hit me... there was still light outside. It was the craziest thing. I looked back and I could see the darkness of night and the rising moon chasing us. In front of me was the setting sun that was fading over the horizon. It was like we were chasing daylight. Of course the way my mind works, that experience made me think of a passage from the book "Chasing Daylight" by Erwin McManus.

"We all have dreams, hopes and aspirations. Why, then, so some of us realize our dreams and move forward while some others from a distance and hope for a break? The question is how do we know that the dream that we are working towards are God's will for our lives? How can we live with a clarity that frees us from apprehension and hesitation and catapults us forward with confidence and courage?

When we are passionate about God, we can trust our passions.

We have but one life. We are given the opportunity to pursue our dreams and fulfill our divine purpose. Every moment counts, and we must engage them with fierceness and zeal. Put an end to passive observation, paralyzed by the need for perfect opportunity, and start seizing the raw, untapped potential of your life with God."

Are you willing to risk failure? Are you ready to get in the game? Everyone stumbles, but you will find yourself falling forward, propelled toward the God-inspired adventure He indents you to live.

Ephesians 3:14-21

14For this reason I kneel before the Father, 15from whom his whole family in heaven and on earth derives its name. 16I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, 17so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, 18may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, 19and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. 20Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, 21to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen. Ephesians 3:14-21

Give - Live

We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give. - Winston Churchill

First Book Down

Leadership From The Inside Out was and will be a good read for the year. David Donahue recommended the book in Nov.'08. Well wrtitten. Interesting style.

Helping The Homeless

"Don't forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have
entertained angels without realizing it!" - Hebrews 13:2

"Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my
Father, inherit the Kingdom prepared for you from the creation of the world. For
I was hungry, and you fed me. I was thirsty, and you gave me a drink. I was a
stranger, and you invited me into your home.'" - Matthew 25:34-35

"What good is it, dear brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but don’t show it by your actions? Can that kind of faith save anyone? 15 Suppose you see a brother or sister who has no food or clothing, 16 and you say, “Good-bye and have a good day; stay warm and eat well”—but then you don’t give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do?" So you see, faith by itself isn’t enough. Unless it produces good deeds, it is dead and useless. - James 2:14-17

"We know what real love is because Jesus gave up his life for us. So we also ought to give up our lives for our brothers and sisters. If someone has enough money to live well and sees a brother or sister in need but shows no compassion—how can God’s love be in that person? Dear children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions." -
I John 3:16-18

Sunrise and Lee are cooperating with the Portsmouth Volunteers For The Homeless and other local churches to provide a warm meal, nice atmosphere and warm place to sleep for some homeless people during the week of January 18-24, 2009. Thanks to the many who have signed up to serve and minister. Thanks to Mike Bailey for taking the lead in this venture. Please be praying. Thank God for a warm place to sleep and warm meals to eat.

I'm Sorry, Prayer

Here you will find some help for Prayer that Says "I'm Sorry"

Prayer

Drop The Worry Habit

Drop the Worry Habit : Creative Anxiety
To worry about things we can’t change is a terrible waste of emotional energy. Rather than worry, people who go the distance have learned the art of “creative anxiety.” While worry is destructive, creative anxiety is constructive. Worry focuses on the problem; creative anxiety focuses on the solution. Worry controls us; creative anxiety puts us in control of our emotions.
Here are some ways to drop the worry habit and learn new patterns of thinking:
1. Schedule creative anxiety. Worry creates a false sense of urgency. We find freedom from worry, then, by identifying that false urgency and making plans to consider options and solutions. It’s helpful to set personal parameters, such as: “I won’t worry about work on personal time.” “I won’t worry about family when I’m working.” “I won’t worry about unlikely possibilities until they become probable.” Follow those parameters and keep worry in its proper place – and its proper perspective.
2. Think the concern through, then set it aside. Regardless of your profession, you have parts of your work that can’t be completed in one block of time. For instance, a business proposal is the result of research, many meetings, consultations, and revisions. In the same way, acknowledging that you may not solve life’s great problems in one sitting can be a liberating thought. Work it through. Keep track of notes and doodles and possible solutions. Then, you can park your anxiety with those notes until you come back.
3. Imagine positive possibilities. Creative thinking means postponing judgment on an idea for another day. Instead of saying it won’t work, consider all solutions as possibilities, regardless of how far-fetched they may seem. Part of what makes creative anxiety work is the willingness to look for less-than-obvious solutions.
4. Give yourself permission to be less than perfect. All of our worries are rooted in fear of loss. What many of us fear is losing our inaccurate self-portrait of having it all together. Perfectionists would rather postpone something than see it done less than perfectly. This habitual postponement causes great anxiety and leads to worrisome habits.
5. Practice the discipline of submission. Part of our old nature is our desire to control. We want to control our circumstances, our relationships, and our future. People with a high need to control are often labeled “control freaks” by those around them. These people are prime candidates for worry-rooted disorders because so much of life is beyond control. When something like cancer, downsizing, or a lawsuit occurs, those who need to control go into a tailspin.
Control is at the heart of one of the most significant passages in all the New Testament. “Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant” (Philippians 2:5-7).
Servants are never in control. They are by nature submitted to their master. Jesus gave up control – of the entire universe – so He might please His Father and redeem humankind. He never once doubted God’s provision. It’s our doubt that God will provide that keeps us from releasing control. When we fully understand our relationship to God and assume the role of servant, we leave behind the need to control and the worry that tags along with that need.

This is some of an article I read at www.lifeway.com

Thank God - Post It

Find that Post It and place "Thank God" on it an place it in your fav spot in the house. for some that will be the fridge, or the Lazy Boy, the comp, your Bible, the Big Screen, the Wii, and the list cont.... find the spot and offer up a prayer that sings and dances. For more visit Prayer That Sings and Dances via viddler.com.

Count Your Blessings - An Oldie But A Goodie

Count your blessings

Name them one by one

Count your blessings

See what God has done

Count your blessings

Name them one by one

Count your many blessings

See what God has done

When upon life's billows

You are tempest tossed

When you are discouraged

Thinking all is lost

Count your many blessings

Name them one by one

And it will surprise you

What the Lord has done

Count your blessings

Name them one by one

Count your blessings

See what God has done

Count your blessings

Name them one by one

Count your many blessings

See what God has done

Are you ever burdened

With a load of care

Does the cross seem heavy

You are called to bear

Count your many blessings

Every doubt will fly

And you will be singing

As the days go by

Count your blessings

Name them one by one

Count your blessings

See what God has done

Count your blessings

Name them one by one

Count your many blessings

See what God has done

When you look at others

With their lands and gold

Think that Christ has promised

You His wealth untold

Count your many blessings

Money cannot buyYour reward in heaven

Nor your home on high

Count your blessings

Name them one by one

Count your blessings

See what God has done

Count your blessings

Name them one by one

Count your many blessings

See what God has done

So, amid the conflict

Whether great or small

Do not be discouraged

God is over all

Count your many blessings

Angels will attend

Help and comfort give you

To your journey's end

Count your blessings

Name them one by one

Count your blessings

See what God has done

Count your blessings

Name them one by one

Count your many blessings

See what God has done

Praying Thanks

Prayers of Thanks found at All About Prayer will help you enter into prayer that sings and dances.

Go Horns

For SCC - Prayer Thanks Sings And Dances 1-4-09

Prayer that Sings and Dances

11 Now on his way to Jerusalem, Jesus traveled along the border between Samaria and Galilee. 12 As he was going into a village, ten men who had leprosy met him. They stood at a distance 13 and called out in a loud voice, "Jesus, Master, have pity on us!" 14 When he saw them, he said, "Go, show yourselves to the priests." And as they went, they were cleansed. 15 One of them, when he saw he was healed, came back, praising God in a loud voice. 16 He threw himself at Jesus' feet and thanked him—and he was a Samaritan. 17 Jesus asked, "Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine? 18 Was no one found to return and give praise to God except this foreigner?" 19 Then he said to him, "Rise and go; your faith has made you well." Luke 19:11-19

The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and I am helped. My heart leaps for joy and I will give thanks to him in song. Psalm 28:7

Then I will thank you in front of the great assembly. I will praise you before all the people. Psalm 35:18

For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. Ephesians 1:15-16

Developing A Prayer Life That Sings And Dances
Give thanks every morning.
Give thanks before your meals.
Start the week with a prayer time of thanks.
Give thanks for life's pleasures.
Start conversations with thanks.

If we fill our hours with regrets of yesterday and with the worries of tomorrow, we have no today in which to be thankful.

I Resolve

Happy New Year - 2009