My friend and fellow parent, Scott Burks, posted this on his fb page.
Step 1 :: Focus your life on Jesus ... This is your top priority!
Step 2 :: Practice 100% involvement in your child's activities ... Attend everything your possibly can.
Step 3 :: Don't try to parent by yourself ... Rely on friends and family for help.
Step 4 :: Never quit! Parenting is for life.
Step 5 :: Speak words of life ... Be encouraging, say yes more than no, and think before your speak.
Step 6 :: Trust the Bible when making hard decisions about your children. Scripture will never lead you down the wrong path!
Step 7 :: Pray all the time! Your children belong to God ... Talk to Him about their lives ... Ask Him for help daily!