Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Serenity Prayer
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace; Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it; Trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His Will; That I may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with Him Forever in the next. Amen. -Reinhold Niebuhr
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
A Six Word Life
The following is from Serious Times.
Vol. 4, No. 23
A Six Word Life
Could you sum up your life in six words?
After this year, some of you might say, “Sure. ‘It has been a living hell.’”
Actually, hundreds attempted the summation in the surprise best seller Not Quite What I Was Planning.
Get it? (the title is itself a six word example)
Some example of how the contributors – some famous, some not – attempt to succinctly sum up their lives:
“Liars, hysterectomy didn’t improve sex life!” (Joan Rivers)
“Well, I thought it was funny.” (Stephen Colbert)
“Maybe you had to be there.” (Roy Blount, Jr.)
“Revenge is living well, without you.” (Joyce Carol Oates)
Many of the submissions are poignant, such as “Followed yellow brick road. Disappointment ensued.” Or “Should have risked asking, he sighed.” Then there was the USA Today reporter who offered his own while reviewing the book: “Dad was Santa. Downhill from there.”
Fun game at a dinner party. Maybe even cheap therapy.
But how should a life be summarized?It’s the end of one year and the start of another. We naturally reflect and reposition; regret and re-commit; remember and then renew.
Perhaps it’s a good time to try and strap on a six-word goal.
I even have one we might all consider. It was the six-word summation of the life of David.
“…did God’s will during his lifetime” (Acts 13:36, NCV).
At least it beats “Never really finished anything, except cake.”
James Emery White
Vol. 4, No. 23
A Six Word Life
Could you sum up your life in six words?
After this year, some of you might say, “Sure. ‘It has been a living hell.’”
Actually, hundreds attempted the summation in the surprise best seller Not Quite What I Was Planning.
Get it? (the title is itself a six word example)
Some example of how the contributors – some famous, some not – attempt to succinctly sum up their lives:
“Liars, hysterectomy didn’t improve sex life!” (Joan Rivers)
“Well, I thought it was funny.” (Stephen Colbert)
“Maybe you had to be there.” (Roy Blount, Jr.)
“Revenge is living well, without you.” (Joyce Carol Oates)
Many of the submissions are poignant, such as “Followed yellow brick road. Disappointment ensued.” Or “Should have risked asking, he sighed.” Then there was the USA Today reporter who offered his own while reviewing the book: “Dad was Santa. Downhill from there.”
Fun game at a dinner party. Maybe even cheap therapy.
But how should a life be summarized?It’s the end of one year and the start of another. We naturally reflect and reposition; regret and re-commit; remember and then renew.
Perhaps it’s a good time to try and strap on a six-word goal.
I even have one we might all consider. It was the six-word summation of the life of David.
“…did God’s will during his lifetime” (Acts 13:36, NCV).
At least it beats “Never really finished anything, except cake.”
James Emery White
Monday, December 29, 2008
Leave Jesus Out For The Year
This year do not put Baby in the attic or in storage. find a little nativity scene and place it somewhere you will see it on a regular basis. May it remind you that Christmas is much more than a season. Christmas is all year long.
Merry "Post" Christmas and Happy "Soon To Be" New Year
This is what I have been saying to people since the day after Christmas. It's been fun. The responses vary. One lady said something like, "someones already been drinking." Funny. I do not "drink". She said it in jest, somewhat. I know it's little over the top and goofy, but so are the movies we like and stories we tell that make us laugh. So, "Merry 'Post' Christmas and Happy 'Soon To Be' New Year.
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Rejoicing
21 On the eighth day, when it was time to circumcise him, he was named Jesus, the name the angel had given him before he had been conceived. 22 When the time of their purification according to the Law of Moses had been completed, Joseph and Mary took him to Jerusalem to present him to the Lord 23 (as it is written in the Law of the Lord, "Every firstborn male is to be consecrated to the Lord"), 24 and to offer a sacrifice in keeping with what is said in the Law of the Lord: "a pair of doves or two young pigeons." 25 Now there was a man in Jerusalem called Simeon, who was righteous and devout. He was waiting for the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was upon him. 26 It had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he would not die before he had seen the Lord's Christ. 27 Moved by the Spirit, he went into the temple courts. When the parents brought in the child Jesus to do for him what the custom of the Law required, 28 Simeon took him in his arms and praised God, saying: 29 "Sovereign Lord, as you have promised, you now dismiss your servant in peace. 30 For my eyes have seen your salvation, 31 which you have prepared in the sight of all people, 32 a light for revelation to the Gentiles and for glory to your people Israel." 33 The child's father and mother marveled at what was said about him. 34 Then Simeon blessed them and said to Mary, his mother: "This child is destined to cause the falling and rising of many in Israel, and to be a sign that will be spoken against, 35 so that the thoughts of many hearts will be revealed. And a sword will pierce your own soul too." 36 There was also a prophetess, Anna, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Asher. She was very old; she had lived with her husband seven years after her marriage, 37 and then was a widow until she was eighty-four. She never left the temple but worshiped night and day, fasting and praying. 38 Coming up to them at that very moment, she gave thanks to God and spoke about the child to all who were looking forward to the redemption of Jerusalem.
Luke 2:21-38
Luke 2:21-38
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Luke 2:1-7
1 In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. 2 (This was the first census that took place while Quirinius was governor of Syria.) 3 And everyone went to his own town to register.4 So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. 5 He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. 6 While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, 7 and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.
Luke 2:1-7
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Good Stuff
This morning was good. Great to see men stepping up and helping people by taking umbrellas to them as they parked to enter the building. That's making a difference and spreading Christmas Cheer.People enjoyed the food and visiting that the Hospitality Team provided for all to enjoy. That's spreading Christmas Cheer.
Children sang at the 11:15 AM service and Christmas Cheer was experienced.
GOOD STUFF!!!
serioustimes.com
Vol. 4, No. 22
The Narcissistic Church
The names say it all.
YouTube. MySpace. And, of course, ipod, itunes, imac, and iPhone.
If there is a theme to our day, it’s that “it’s all about me.” The technical term is narcissism. In Greek mythology, Narcissus is the character who, upon passing his reflection in the water, becomes so enamored with himself that he devotes the rest of his life to his own reflection. From this we get our term “narcissism,” the preoccupation with self.
The value of "narcissism" is the classic "I, me, mine" mentality that places personal pleasure and fulfillment at the forefront of concerns. Historian Christopher Lasch went so far as to christen ours “the culture of narcissism,” calling it our new religion.
Now as Christians, this should be antithetical. We follow a savior who said, “I did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give my life as a ransom for many;” “Whoever wants to be first must become last;” “Whoever wants to be great among must become the slave of all;” and then bowed in submission to the Father Himself and said, “Not my will, but yours.”
Yet a spiritual narcissism has invaded our thinking where the individual needs and desires of the Believer become the center of attention.
Have you ever heard the way we talk?
“I want to go where I'm fed" or "I need to be ministered to” rolls off our tongues without even blushing. We walk out of a worship service and say, "I didn't get anything out of it" as if worship was about what we received rather than what we gave to God.
And it’s killing the church, blinding our vision, paralyzing our mission, and muting our voice.
But is it simply a reflection of a narcissistic culture? Or could it be something we secretly feed ourselves?
Consider the first two questions any organization must ask itself (courtesy of Peter Drucker): What is our mission? and Who is our customer? The second of these involves crass language, I know, for any church. But let’s consider them a moment. First, what is our mission? I would argue that it is to seek and to save the lost (how could we have a mission other than the one Christ had and then entrusted to us as the church?). Yes, the Great Commission involves discipleship, but I tire of those who pit evangelism against discipleship, as if doing one prevents concentrating on the other. It’s a both/and, not an either/or. But more to the point of the mission, if you never reach anyone for Christ, who, exactly, will you be discipling? Evangelism must be in the vanguard.
From this comes the second question: Who, then, is our primary customer? It is inescapable: if our mission is to seek and to save and then disciple the lost, then our “customer” is the one who is lost. Here is the breakdown: most churches have, as their primary focus, reaching and then serving the already convinced. From this, services rendered to the believer become paramount, and other churches become the “competition.”
Which means that we are not victims of a culture of narcissism; we are purveyors of it.
There are those who would say that the place where spiritual narcissism runs amok is in contemporary approaches to outreach that seek to cater to the unchurched – as if these churches are abandoning orthodoxy in any way possible in order to gain warm bodies. Most, of course, are doing nothing of the sort. In truth, the real narcissism is among the churches catering to the believer, making their needs paramount to such a degree that the lost are, well, staying so. Because nowhere does true spiritual narcissism face more opposition than in a church which is choosing to die to itself in order to reach out and serve those around them.
Then it’s not about whether you are fed, but whether or not you have learned to feed yourself and, best of all, feed others.
Then it’s not about whether you are ministered to, but whether you are, yourself, a minister to others.
Then it’s not about whether you got anything out of the service, but whether you gave God anything of service.
And that is a church that has died to itself enough to….live.
James Emery White
Sources
Christopher Lasch, The Culture of Narcissism.
The Narcissistic Church
The names say it all.
YouTube. MySpace. And, of course, ipod, itunes, imac, and iPhone.
If there is a theme to our day, it’s that “it’s all about me.” The technical term is narcissism. In Greek mythology, Narcissus is the character who, upon passing his reflection in the water, becomes so enamored with himself that he devotes the rest of his life to his own reflection. From this we get our term “narcissism,” the preoccupation with self.
The value of "narcissism" is the classic "I, me, mine" mentality that places personal pleasure and fulfillment at the forefront of concerns. Historian Christopher Lasch went so far as to christen ours “the culture of narcissism,” calling it our new religion.
Now as Christians, this should be antithetical. We follow a savior who said, “I did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give my life as a ransom for many;” “Whoever wants to be first must become last;” “Whoever wants to be great among must become the slave of all;” and then bowed in submission to the Father Himself and said, “Not my will, but yours.”
Yet a spiritual narcissism has invaded our thinking where the individual needs and desires of the Believer become the center of attention.
Have you ever heard the way we talk?
“I want to go where I'm fed" or "I need to be ministered to” rolls off our tongues without even blushing. We walk out of a worship service and say, "I didn't get anything out of it" as if worship was about what we received rather than what we gave to God.
And it’s killing the church, blinding our vision, paralyzing our mission, and muting our voice.
But is it simply a reflection of a narcissistic culture? Or could it be something we secretly feed ourselves?
Consider the first two questions any organization must ask itself (courtesy of Peter Drucker): What is our mission? and Who is our customer? The second of these involves crass language, I know, for any church. But let’s consider them a moment. First, what is our mission? I would argue that it is to seek and to save the lost (how could we have a mission other than the one Christ had and then entrusted to us as the church?). Yes, the Great Commission involves discipleship, but I tire of those who pit evangelism against discipleship, as if doing one prevents concentrating on the other. It’s a both/and, not an either/or. But more to the point of the mission, if you never reach anyone for Christ, who, exactly, will you be discipling? Evangelism must be in the vanguard.
From this comes the second question: Who, then, is our primary customer? It is inescapable: if our mission is to seek and to save and then disciple the lost, then our “customer” is the one who is lost. Here is the breakdown: most churches have, as their primary focus, reaching and then serving the already convinced. From this, services rendered to the believer become paramount, and other churches become the “competition.”
Which means that we are not victims of a culture of narcissism; we are purveyors of it.
There are those who would say that the place where spiritual narcissism runs amok is in contemporary approaches to outreach that seek to cater to the unchurched – as if these churches are abandoning orthodoxy in any way possible in order to gain warm bodies. Most, of course, are doing nothing of the sort. In truth, the real narcissism is among the churches catering to the believer, making their needs paramount to such a degree that the lost are, well, staying so. Because nowhere does true spiritual narcissism face more opposition than in a church which is choosing to die to itself in order to reach out and serve those around them.
Then it’s not about whether you are fed, but whether or not you have learned to feed yourself and, best of all, feed others.
Then it’s not about whether you are ministered to, but whether you are, yourself, a minister to others.
Then it’s not about whether you got anything out of the service, but whether you gave God anything of service.
And that is a church that has died to itself enough to….live.
James Emery White
Sources
Christopher Lasch, The Culture of Narcissism.
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Good Stuff From Randy Forbes
A few weeks ago, a staff member shared with me a story she had read about a Marine serving our country in the Persian Gulf War years ago. It was the Marine’s first Christmas away from his wife and small daughter, and every day leading up to the holiday grew lonelier and lonelier. The thought of spending Christmas eating turkey in the mess hall of a Navy ship with his buddies just wasn’t the same as being in the comfort of his own home filled with the aroma of his wife’s cooking and being with his family. Just days before Christmas, letters to “Any Solider” were delivered throughout the ship. He usually didn’t take the “Any Soldier” letters, since he was lucky enough to receive regular correspondence from his wife and daughter. However, this time he felt compelled to – in the lonely days before Christmas, it was worth receiving all of the words of encouragement he could get. He opened the letter and began to read the words, obviously scribbled from the hand of a young child. Towards the end of the note he read:
My daddy is a Marine serving over there too. If you see him, tell him hi and that I love him and I miss him. The Marine sat down stunned and quiet as he looked down at the bottom of the note – his own daughter had sent the letter.
For many today, the stress of our current economic situation makes it difficult to think of the Christmas season as joyous. Many individuals are confronting job loss, or facing the realization that their business must downsize because of decreasing revenue. Many individuals and families are being forced to cut back and there are many who are doing much less this year for Christmas. For military families, the sheer difficulty of separation is often felt the hardest during the holidays.
But stories like the Marine receiving an “Any Soldier” note are reminders of the giving and hopeful nature of the season, and that sometimes the smallest acts of encouragement or kindness can provide hope to someone who needs it the most. This Christmas season, I hope you will take time to reflect on the ways you and your family can show gratitude and encouragement to those who are in need – to remember those who are serving our country, to serve those who are sick, and to show gratitude for the freedoms we enjoy as a nation.
My daddy is a Marine serving over there too. If you see him, tell him hi and that I love him and I miss him. The Marine sat down stunned and quiet as he looked down at the bottom of the note – his own daughter had sent the letter.
For many today, the stress of our current economic situation makes it difficult to think of the Christmas season as joyous. Many individuals are confronting job loss, or facing the realization that their business must downsize because of decreasing revenue. Many individuals and families are being forced to cut back and there are many who are doing much less this year for Christmas. For military families, the sheer difficulty of separation is often felt the hardest during the holidays.
But stories like the Marine receiving an “Any Soldier” note are reminders of the giving and hopeful nature of the season, and that sometimes the smallest acts of encouragement or kindness can provide hope to someone who needs it the most. This Christmas season, I hope you will take time to reflect on the ways you and your family can show gratitude and encouragement to those who are in need – to remember those who are serving our country, to serve those who are sick, and to show gratitude for the freedoms we enjoy as a nation.
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Luke 2:8-20 The Message
8-12 There were sheepherders camping in the neighborhood. They had set night watches over their sheep. Suddenly, God's angel stood among them and God's glory blazed around them. They were terrified. The angel said, "Don't be afraid. I'm here to announce a great and joyful event that is meant for everybody, worldwide: A Savior has just been born in David's town, a Savior who is Messiah and Master. This is what you're to look for: a baby wrapped in a blanket and lying in a manger." 13-14 At once the angel was joined by a huge angelic choir singing God's praises: Glory to God in the heavenly heights, Peace to all men and women on earth who please him. 15-18 As the angel choir withdrew into heaven, the sheepherders talked it over. "Let's get over to Bethlehem as fast as we can and see for ourselves what God has revealed to us." They left, running, and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby lying in the manger. Seeing was believing. They told everyone they met what the angels had said about this child. All who heard the sheepherders were impressed. 19-20 Mary kept all these things to herself, holding them dear, deep within herself. The sheepherders returned and let loose, glorifying and praising God for everything they had heard and seen. It turned out exactly the way they'd been told!
What Child Is This
What Child is this who, laid to restOn Mary’s lap is sleeping?
Whom angels greet with anthems sweet,
While shepherds watch are keeping?
This, this is Christ the King,
Whom shepherds guard and angels sing;
Haste, haste, to bring Him laud,
The Babe, the Son of Mary.
Why lies He in such mean estate,
Where ox and ass are feeding?
Good Christians, fear, for sinners here
The silent Word is pleading.
Nails, spear shall pierce Him through,
The cross be borne for me, for you.
Hail, hail the Word made flesh,
The Babe, the Son of Mary.
So bring Him incense, gold and myrrh,
Come peasant, king to own Him;
The King of kings salvation brings,
Let loving hearts enthrone Him.
Raise, raise a song on high,
The virgin sings her lullaby.
Joy, joy for Christ is born,
The Babe, the Son of Mary.
Whom angels greet with anthems sweet,
While shepherds watch are keeping?
This, this is Christ the King,
Whom shepherds guard and angels sing;
Haste, haste, to bring Him laud,
The Babe, the Son of Mary.
Why lies He in such mean estate,
Where ox and ass are feeding?
Good Christians, fear, for sinners here
The silent Word is pleading.
Nails, spear shall pierce Him through,
The cross be borne for me, for you.
Hail, hail the Word made flesh,
The Babe, the Son of Mary.
So bring Him incense, gold and myrrh,
Come peasant, king to own Him;
The King of kings salvation brings,
Let loving hearts enthrone Him.
Raise, raise a song on high,
The virgin sings her lullaby.
Joy, joy for Christ is born,
The Babe, the Son of Mary.
Monday, December 15, 2008
Christmas Thought and Thanks
As Christmas approaches, I'd like to take a moment to express my gratitude to God for the partnership we have together. I live in a world of the richest relationships imaginable and you are an important part of that - a gift from God to me. Thanks for being fellow explorers! And may 2009 bring exponential impact from both of us through our partnership in the Gospel. Peace be with you and merry Christmas! John C.
John C is the leader of the Spence Network and is very helpful to leaders, pastors, church planters and others including me. Merry Christmas ChanMan.
John C is the leader of the Spence Network and is very helpful to leaders, pastors, church planters and others including me. Merry Christmas ChanMan.
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Christmas Poem
The First Christmas
This is Mary
This is Joseph
This is their donkey gray.
This is the town of Bethlehem
Where they would like to stay.
This is an angel.
This is a shepherd.
This is a brand, new star.
Later came the wisemen
Travelling from afar.
This is a stable.
This is a manger
By a cattle stall.
This is the Baby Jesus
The Savior of us all.
This is the very first Christmas
That anyone did keep—
To honor Baby Jesus—
Shh! He's fallen asleep!
—DaLee C. James
This is Mary
This is Joseph
This is their donkey gray.
This is the town of Bethlehem
Where they would like to stay.
This is an angel.
This is a shepherd.
This is a brand, new star.
Later came the wisemen
Travelling from afar.
This is a stable.
This is a manger
By a cattle stall.
This is the Baby Jesus
The Savior of us all.
This is the very first Christmas
That anyone did keep—
To honor Baby Jesus—
Shh! He's fallen asleep!
—DaLee C. James
Friday, December 12, 2008
The Moon 12-12-08
Was a news piece and received a phone call about the moon tonight. My son commented on it as we were on the way to his friends. Beautiful.From a fellow blogger: Here is some treat for the sky watchers, as today, the12th December, the world will witness the brightest full moon ever. The moon to appear today is about 30 percent brighter and 14 percent larger than the other full moons seen in the year 2008.This phenomenon is because the moon is much closer to the earth than usual, on its egg-shaped circle around the earth. When it get closer to the earth it is perigee and when farthest from earth it is apogee. The two points occur once every year , but the moon's exact distance varies over the years.
Get The Word Out
As the angel choir withdrew into heaven, the sheepherders talked it over. "Let's get over to Bethlehem as fast as we can and see for ourselves what God has revealed to us." They left, running, and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby lying in the manger. Seeing was believing. They told everyone they met what the angels had said about this child. All who heard the sheepherders were impressed. Luke 2:15-18 The Message
The number one way people come to faith in Jesus Christ is by a family member or friend who knows Jesus Christ sharing their story and inviting the other to become a part of God's wonderful story. This Christmas Season may the "Buzz" be about God because we are telling our story which is really God's story. "Joy to the world, the Lord has come."
The number one way people come to faith in Jesus Christ is by a family member or friend who knows Jesus Christ sharing their story and inviting the other to become a part of God's wonderful story. This Christmas Season may the "Buzz" be about God because we are telling our story which is really God's story. "Joy to the world, the Lord has come."
Isaiah 9:6
For to us a child is born,
to us a son is given,
and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called
Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
to us a son is given,
and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called
Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Bethlehem Star
I just finished watching a DVD presentation about the Star of Bethlehem. Interesting. Visit The Star for yourself. I will need to watch it several more times, but I must admit the presentation is compelling.
Leadership Thought
Leading Ideas: Getting Unstuck (part 2) “ID-ing Catalyzing Leaders”
Orginally published on Monday, December 08, 2008 at 9:19 AM by Alan E. Nelson
In the last LeadingIdeas, I pointed out that the primary reason that churches find themselves stuck is because they’ve marginalized or run off their catalyzing leaders. These are the people who have the God-given ability to sense where organizations are stuck and are able to strategize ways to move them forward. The typical scenario is that managers or do-gooders get selected to serve on the church board, people who’ve never really led much in their lives, but find themselves in a situation where they can “be in charge.” If and when a catalyst is nominated to serve on the board or even considers the outside chance of volunteering for the role, he looks at the current board, doesn’t spot any other catalysts, and then graciously excuses himself. Fat chance they want to spend endless hours in board meetings, nit-picking over paint chips or micro-managing ministry budgets. So how do you find these elusive, catalyzing leaders, when you’re surrounded by teaching, relational, and managerial types? The problem is a big one because the old adage is true, “it takes one to know one.” When non-catalyzing leaders try to find catalyzing leaders, they nearly always come up with their own kind. So here’s a cheat sheet of sorts to help you discern who has a catalyzing wiring in your congregation, so that you can seek them out one on one for some loving arm-twisting. Since these people almost never respond to cattle calls from the pulpit or bulletin announcements, and healthy ones rarely volunteer to help (unhealthy controlling types sometimes do), you’ll need to do some personal recruiting. Sounds a lot like Jesus’ approach to disciple-inviting, doesn’t it? Here are 5 traits for identify catalyzing leaders:
1. They currently supervise at least 10 people in their work; 20 or more is even better. Don’t just look for talented individuals, sole business owners who sell insurance or run a ma and pa type store. People who manage more than a handful of others often have the catalyzing gene.
2. Interview the person and listen for past experience in terms of being in charge of clubs or groups. For example, “I was student body president of my high school.” “I was the captain of our debate team.” “I was the youngest to be promoted to district manager in our company.” In our work with young leaders in KidLead, we’ve found that catalyzing leaders tend to emerge early in life, as early as preschool when socializing distinguishes the followers from the followed.
3. They’ve successfully established ministry teams at church. When you give a catalyzing leader a task, he or she will round up a group of people and gidder done. Others will tend to overwork themselves, stress out over limited resources, and fail to attract others to the cause. They’ll say things such as, “Nobody showed up. Everyone was too busy. People just aren’t committed.” Use your local church as a laboratory to test for those able to catalyze others and accomplish things through teams.
4. They’re talked about when absent or are looked to when in a group. This is the EF Hutton symptom, “when they talk, others listen.” This person may not be brash, outgoing, or an extrovert, but they do carry a presence about them that is noticed when they are absent. Listen for names that get mentioned frequently and look for those who are asked about by others.
5. Look at those in your church who get things outside of the church. Catalyzing leaders can’t not lead. Because most churches don’t have enough room for them to spread their wings, they gravitate toward community, parachurch, or business arenas that recognize and reward them with opportunities. Google, read the paper, and interview those in your church who may be sitting in the back or attending sporadically, to see who is making the chips fly on the outside .
You may find one or two of these indicators in people who aren’t catalyzing leaders, but most catalyzing leaders will have at least four of them, if not all five. When you ID them positively, do your best to cast a personal vision. Better yet, find three or four of them and get them all together at one time. They’ll recognize the trait in each other and when they realize they’re not alone in the church, they’re more apt to hope things really can change. Then, let them go. Don’t tie them down with protocol and constraints. Let the horses run.
Alan E. Nelson http://www.alanenelson.com http://www.kidlead.com
I read this at www.mondaymorninginsight.com
Orginally published on Monday, December 08, 2008 at 9:19 AM by Alan E. Nelson
In the last LeadingIdeas, I pointed out that the primary reason that churches find themselves stuck is because they’ve marginalized or run off their catalyzing leaders. These are the people who have the God-given ability to sense where organizations are stuck and are able to strategize ways to move them forward. The typical scenario is that managers or do-gooders get selected to serve on the church board, people who’ve never really led much in their lives, but find themselves in a situation where they can “be in charge.” If and when a catalyst is nominated to serve on the board or even considers the outside chance of volunteering for the role, he looks at the current board, doesn’t spot any other catalysts, and then graciously excuses himself. Fat chance they want to spend endless hours in board meetings, nit-picking over paint chips or micro-managing ministry budgets. So how do you find these elusive, catalyzing leaders, when you’re surrounded by teaching, relational, and managerial types? The problem is a big one because the old adage is true, “it takes one to know one.” When non-catalyzing leaders try to find catalyzing leaders, they nearly always come up with their own kind. So here’s a cheat sheet of sorts to help you discern who has a catalyzing wiring in your congregation, so that you can seek them out one on one for some loving arm-twisting. Since these people almost never respond to cattle calls from the pulpit or bulletin announcements, and healthy ones rarely volunteer to help (unhealthy controlling types sometimes do), you’ll need to do some personal recruiting. Sounds a lot like Jesus’ approach to disciple-inviting, doesn’t it? Here are 5 traits for identify catalyzing leaders:
1. They currently supervise at least 10 people in their work; 20 or more is even better. Don’t just look for talented individuals, sole business owners who sell insurance or run a ma and pa type store. People who manage more than a handful of others often have the catalyzing gene.
2. Interview the person and listen for past experience in terms of being in charge of clubs or groups. For example, “I was student body president of my high school.” “I was the captain of our debate team.” “I was the youngest to be promoted to district manager in our company.” In our work with young leaders in KidLead, we’ve found that catalyzing leaders tend to emerge early in life, as early as preschool when socializing distinguishes the followers from the followed.
3. They’ve successfully established ministry teams at church. When you give a catalyzing leader a task, he or she will round up a group of people and gidder done. Others will tend to overwork themselves, stress out over limited resources, and fail to attract others to the cause. They’ll say things such as, “Nobody showed up. Everyone was too busy. People just aren’t committed.” Use your local church as a laboratory to test for those able to catalyze others and accomplish things through teams.
4. They’re talked about when absent or are looked to when in a group. This is the EF Hutton symptom, “when they talk, others listen.” This person may not be brash, outgoing, or an extrovert, but they do carry a presence about them that is noticed when they are absent. Listen for names that get mentioned frequently and look for those who are asked about by others.
5. Look at those in your church who get things outside of the church. Catalyzing leaders can’t not lead. Because most churches don’t have enough room for them to spread their wings, they gravitate toward community, parachurch, or business arenas that recognize and reward them with opportunities. Google, read the paper, and interview those in your church who may be sitting in the back or attending sporadically, to see who is making the chips fly on the outside .
You may find one or two of these indicators in people who aren’t catalyzing leaders, but most catalyzing leaders will have at least four of them, if not all five. When you ID them positively, do your best to cast a personal vision. Better yet, find three or four of them and get them all together at one time. They’ll recognize the trait in each other and when they realize they’re not alone in the church, they’re more apt to hope things really can change. Then, let them go. Don’t tie them down with protocol and constraints. Let the horses run.
Alan E. Nelson http://www.alanenelson.com http://www.kidlead.com
I read this at www.mondaymorninginsight.com
Possible Joseph Thoughts
In the first Christmas Story Joseph obeys. He hears God and obeys. May I do the same.
Brain and Life Food
"There is a God-shaped vacuum in the heart of every man which cannot be filled by any created thing, but only by God the Creator made known through Jesus Christ."
Blaise Pascal (1623-1662)
Blaise Pascal (1623-1662)
Tuesday, December 09, 2008
Today's Whistling
Hark the herald angels sing"
Glory to the newborn King!
Peace on earth and mercy mild
God and sinners reconciled"
Joyful, all ye nations rise
Join the triumph of the skies
With the angelic host proclaim:"
Christ is born in Bethlehem"
Hark! The herald angels sing"
Glory to the newborn King!"
Christ by highest heav'n adored
Christ the everlasting Lord!
Late in time behold Him come
Offspring of a Virgin's womb
Veiled in flesh the Godhead see
Hail the incarnate Deity
Pleased as man with man to dwell
Jesus, our Emmanuel
Hark! The herald angels sing"
Glory to the newborn King!"
Hail the heav'n-born Prince of Peace!
Hail the Son of Righteousness!
Light and life to all He brings
Ris'n with healing in His wings
Mild He lays His glory by
Born that man no more may die
Born to raise the sons of earth
Born to give them second birth
Hark! The herald angels sing"
Glory to the newborn King!"
Thursday, December 04, 2008
Pray This Prayer - Regularly
The prayer below was offered in a Community Group by a person who is growing in Christ and branching out into new territories of faith in order to touch more lives.Father,
We thank you for this study tonight and this time to learn about complete forgiveness. Thank you for making us all equal in your eyes. You forgive us no matter how big or small we may have sinned. Thank you for forgiveness even when we cannot forgive ourselves. Thank you for seeing our heart, we are truly grateful. Teach us to be more like you and to forgive others. Help us to remember it is not by our deeds but by our faith in you that we are saved. Thank you for providing this way for us. Let us seek to honor you in everything we say and do. Let us show others love and kindness. Help us and move in our lives to show us what we can accomplish in your name. Help us to put our faith into action. Help us to be more like you in everything we say and do.
In Jesus Name, Amen
We thank you for this study tonight and this time to learn about complete forgiveness. Thank you for making us all equal in your eyes. You forgive us no matter how big or small we may have sinned. Thank you for forgiveness even when we cannot forgive ourselves. Thank you for seeing our heart, we are truly grateful. Teach us to be more like you and to forgive others. Help us to remember it is not by our deeds but by our faith in you that we are saved. Thank you for providing this way for us. Let us seek to honor you in everything we say and do. Let us show others love and kindness. Help us and move in our lives to show us what we can accomplish in your name. Help us to put our faith into action. Help us to be more like you in everything we say and do.
In Jesus Name, Amen
Wednesday, December 03, 2008
Christmas Cheer
For those who are a part of SCC. Keep bringing in nice, clean, gently used coats for adults and children and plan on giving above and beyond your regular offering to help with ministry throughout Virginia. You can also help with Compassion International, Tamani Africa.
See Matthew 1 and 2 and Luke 1 and 2 for the story of the birth of Jesus Christ.
Worship
1-2 After Jesus was born in Bethlehem village, Judah territory— this was during Herod's kingship—a band of scholars arrived in Jerusalem from the East. They asked around, "Where can we find and pay homage to the newborn King of the Jews? We observed a star in the eastern sky that signaled his birth. We're on pilgrimage to worship him."11 They entered the house and saw the child in the arms of Mary, his mother. Overcome, they kneeled and worshiped him. Then they opened their luggage and presented gifts: gold, frankincense, myrrh.
Worship: Recognise God's greatness. To bow down before God. To offer yourself to God. Recognize God is the King and you are the servant. Acknowledging that God is in control.
Tuesday, December 02, 2008
Bethlehem in Santa Clara
Take a quick tour of Bethlehem in Santa Clara. This is a pretty cool way to help people understand Christmas. Offer up a brief prayer for this church and Bethlehem Experience. Offer up a prayer for someone you know who has not yet accepted Jesus Christ. Offer up a prayer for the local church in which you serve. Offer up a prayer for yourself and thank God for life.
Monday, December 01, 2008
Social Event Questions
7 Easy To Ask Questions For Social EventsHow do you like the band/food/play (fill in the blank) so far?
How do you know the hosts? (This tells me about connections and helps me find possible similarities.)
What do you do when you're not at cookouts? (work/family/hobbies)
What do you do for a living? or Do you work outside the home?
What do you do for fun?
How did you end up in ___________ (Name of city)?
How did you two meet (if you're talking to a couple)?
Thanks to John Chandler of The Spence Network for the above.
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Click on the link and begin to pray. 18 Things To Pray For Your Church